After reading 《拥抱》, I had a sudden flow of thoughts in my head. Do you remember when was the last time you hug someone? A week ago? A month ago or a year ago? I haven't hug anyone since 6 weeks ago. Missing my loved ones back home after reading this book.
Hugging is an art. There are many reasons why people hug and there are also dos and don't s of hugging. When hugging someone, respect each other and hug at appropriate distance depending on who you are hugging. There is this page of the book that mentioned about the 12 do nots when hugging:
- Do not hug for only 1 second or keep hugging.
- Do not get distracted and start talking on the phone.
- Do not drool...
- Do not fantasize.
- Do not compare hugs.
- Do not be fake. Be sincere.
- Do not fart.
- Do not sneeze or cough.
- Do not stop breathing because of the person's body odour.
- Do not talk about politics.
- Do not use violence.
- Do not not hug.
So hug while you can. Do not wait till you lose the chance then you regret...
On a side note: I made my host family Laksa today for dinner with the help of my host's daughter. I think they kinda like it although it's a bit spicy for them. They don't really take spicy food so I reduced the spicy level. It's my first time preparing this dish so I was kinda nervous. I brought the pre-mixed laksa paste from Singapore. As for the ingredients wise, some of it are not available here. So I replaced it with what's available here. I used 日本冬粉 in replacement of 粗米粉.
stay tune for my next post on Keelung and Jiufen. ><
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